Will You marry Me??

We often hear question “will you marry me?“ when someone shows good intention in having personal relationship with someone else, usually it’s between a man or a woman. It used to be a man who tells his seriousness to a woman as the ultimate result of their serious relationship.

Is serious relationship have to be ended by marriage? There is a kind of feeling that someone has understand each other, they already love each other and so on...but once they get into marriage life, the feeling is gone. It can be caused by problems that they faced but they cannot resolve the problems. The next thing happens is divorce. Sometimes the marriage life is only within a month long, but they just give up easily.

Why we have to get married if we have to get separated in the end?

It’s such a funny question for me, because divorce is not good thing. It would be fine if the spouse don’t have children but if they already have it the divorce will be so hard for the both of them and also for their children. There are many factors that should be considered, such as financial factor, emotional factor, and the readiness from each of the spouse to be single parent.

So you better think about the divorce carefully when you have decided to take a marriage life. You had better involved your parents before you decide to take a marriage life because parents sometimes know what the best for their children. Do not use your emotion to decide something important in your life because sometimes it will give you bad result in the end. Always use your logic thinking because it is very important and useful for you. So that the last decision will turn out to be good for the next of your life.

In marriage life, love is not everything, it is about how we go through the holly marriage institution where there are two people reunite by God to live together till the end of their life.

Two different people with two different characters is about to blend into partnership, they try to suit their good and bad potential, they try to fill the day with meaningful things, and in the end they hope they will find the same ideal about life, becoming happy family....amen.